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We’ve got some serious maturity issues we need to resolve.ġ1: We don’t necessarily find it an attractive trait when you brag about being “too young” to miss references to Rock Hudson, Debbie Harry or Vietnam. Keep that in mind and you might be able to teach us a few things, or know when it’s wise to search for someone at your own level of growth.ĩ: Brace yourself, but a lot of us never went to Studio 54.ġ0: If it’s five days after the Black Party and we tell you we can’t go out because we’re still recovering, do not date us. Learn from our mistakes.Ĩ: With age doesn’t always come maturity, and even though we might be rich, successful and popular, we can be just as shallow and immature as anyone else. Someone had to say it, and we’ve embarrassed ourselves enough with Day-Glo and manpris.
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Men are sexy and handsome at all ages, and with experience comes the desire for substantial relationships above all else. …and that, as such, we’ll date you no matter what your personality. You know, just like a lot of straight people.ĥ: Except for the music and fashion, the Eighties sucked.ĭon’t listen to us when we get overly sentimental about the Reagan era.Ħ: Contrary to most of the photos of half-naked men you see on Internet websites and Calvin Klein’s love life, not all older guys think 20-something men are automatically sexier than those above the 40 mark…
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It’s possible to be pro marriage equality and not want it for ourselves. Stay away from the label unless you know we like it, or unless you want us to send you home without supper.Ĥ: You don’t need to look at us with sad eyes if we say we don’t want to get married.
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But we do all love Cher, because not loving Cher is somehow just wrong.ģ: Not all men over 40 are dads, and even those who are don’t always like to be called Daddies, unless it’s by a child we’re raising. Many men over 40 have no interest in or despise some of these women, and some are even too young to know much about Judy. Use the word “clean” when enquiring about someone’s apartment status.Ģ: We aren’t all enamored of Barbra Streisand, Liza Minnelli, Bette Midler and Judy Garland. No matter our ages, let’s make one thing clear: Asking if someone is “clean” when you mean “HIV Negative” is an insult to all Positive men (the implication being that men with HIV are “dirty”).
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If we are over 40 and healthy, it’s more than likely because we’ve been smart in our sexual choices and, if we are Positive, have taken care of ourselves so as not to risk our health or the health of others. Young men are often the most prone to abandon safe sex in the heat of the moment, as they view the disease in a less-serious light than we do. We might tend to stereotype someone based on their appearance and/or age, but as we all know, there is always more than meets the eye.Įarlier this year, author David Toussaint shared his list of things 20-something year-old gay guys should know about ‘older guys’.ġ: Never assume because we are over 40 that we are HIV-Positive or practice unsafe sex. 09 May 14 Ending HIV WHAT GAY 20-SOMETHINGS NEED TO KNOW ABOUT ‘OLDER GUYS’